O prietenie nu se verifica numai prin libertatea pe care i-o acorzi celuilalt. A ajuta pe un prieten la nevoie, a-l incalzi cu mangaierile tale, a-l inconjura cu "sinceritatile" tale nu inseamna nimic. Altele sunt adevaratele probe ale prieteniei: a nu-i incalca libertatea, a nu-l judeca din punctul tau de vedere (care poate fi real si justificabil, dar poate nu corespunde experientei destinului celuilalt), a nu-l pretui prin ceea ce iti convine sau te amuza pe tine, ci pentru ceea ce este, pentru el insusi, prin ceea ce trebuie el sa realizeze ca sa ajunga un om. Iar nu un simplu manechin.
A friendshis does not verify only through the liberty that u give to the other.to help a friend in need,to comfort him with ur care,to guard him with ur ''sincerity'' does not meaan a thing. Others r the real challenges of the friendship:never to limit the liberty, never to judge the other from ur point of view, which can be real and justifiable but may be not suitable to the other' experience and destiny, not to value him through what u like more or through what it amuses u, but for what he really is,for himself, through all he needs to realize to become a full humanand. Not a simple toy.
Friendship is not a game to play,
It is not a word to say,
It doesn`t start on March and ends on May,
It is tomorrow, yesterday, today and everyday.
Building friendships takes time. Friendships require self-disclosure so any friendship has risks, Talking and listening builds friendships. Friendships require equality and loyalty from friends.
Friendships may not last. Friendships can lose importance and die gradually. Some friendships end abruptly with unresolved conflict. The worst enemy of friendships is change by one or both friends. There is usually pain with the loss of friendship.
Binenteles ca lista nu se termina aici ci mai am prieteni, dar unii dintrei ei nu si-au dorit sa apara aici din motive obiective pe care orice om sanatos le poate intelege.
Of course the list does not end here and i have much more friend, but some of them didn't want to show up here from some respectably reasons which any sane person would understand.
A nice quiz
There is a very very tall coconut tree, and there are 4 animals:
King Kong, Ape, Orangutan and a monkey pass by.
They have a competition to see Who is the fastest to get the banana. Who do you guess will win?
Your answer will reflect your personality. Try and answer within 30 seconds
Got your answer? Scroll down to see the analysis.
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If your answer is ....
Orangutan = You are sooo dull / stupid
Ape =
You are Foolish
Monkey = You are an Idiot
King Kong = You are stupid
Why ?????
Coconut tree, doesn't have bananas ... ??? ...
It's obvious you're stressed by ur work.
Ha ha........... J
Si acum o chestie amuzanta...
e adresata mai ales celor stresati
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